
Location Matters!
Vignettes from scattered locales shed light on our polity.
By Conor Friedersdorf, November 19, 2008
On a September morning several years ago, I knocked at the door of a new tract home in Rancho Cucamonga, California, having arranged to interview its owners. They were recent transplants from Illinois who bought their house, sight unseen, on a broker’s advice.
“Care for some coffee?” the wife asked once I’d come inside.
The husband poured himself a cup too.
“Let’s talk out in the backyard,” he said. “Or do you think it’s too windy?”
In fact, it was as beautiful a morning as I’ve seen. The previous evening, gusty desert winds swept away the smog that choked San Bernardino County for weeks on end. Thus we headed outside onto a small patio, where the husband, stopping short just past the threshold, stared agape at the mountains.
“Honey, look at that,” he said.
“My God,” she replied. “It’s beautiful.”
As it turned out, husband and wife were unaware that their home boasted a mountain view—in fact, they never knew that an 8,599 foot peak rose just several miles from their back door, for prior to that morning the hazy Southern California air obscured the horizon.
Strange as it may seem to move to the foothills without knowing it, I cannot fault the couple for their myopia. Transplanted to an unfamiliar region, I’d doubtless be ignorant of something that looms as large for locals, or so I expect after living in three regions and visiting several others.
Every election year we’re reminded that we are “one nation, under God, indivisible.” It’s true enough that the principles of the founders unite us, as does the national defense, the Olympic games and network television. There is, however, a limit to our unity, one wrapped up in a lot of disparate concepts, including controversial ones like federalism and multiculturalism, but also uncontroversial ones: the pride of Texans, the Midwesterner who wants his child to attend nearby college, the inevitable return of most Californians to the Golden State, the Alaskan or Hawaiian vividly aware of her locale’s singularity.
I’ve always gotten along well enough with my fellow Americans, or at least the ones I’ve met. I haven’t stumbled upon or sought out snake-handling churches, NASCAR hotbeds, or hippie farms where everyone prances around naked, but I trust I’d like most of their denizens too—not that I’d want to live in their subcultures, though they’re welcome to do so.
Perhaps my attitude is uncontroversial—most Americans are, upon reflection, live and let live. But I worry that too often, the over-culture we share blinds us to the importance of local circumstances, the significance of regional differences and the need to accommodate them.
Is this all too vague?
So that I might be clearer, I offer a few vignettes that converge around what I’m trying to describe—a polity whose diversity ought to inform how its people interact.
It is enough to begin by saying that location matters.
2.
The city of my birth, Albuquerque, New Mexico, and the place I grew up, greater Los Angeles, California, are each known, among other things, for their delicious Mexican food. My maternal grandparents are from Louisiana. My mother is part French Cajun, part something else European.
Nevertheless, the recipes she’s passed on to me include exceptional homemade guacamole, Prime Rib enchiladas made from Christmas Day leftovers, a particularly tasty taco salad that tops every variety I’ve sampled, and other Mexican dishes so much a part of my childhood that when my father’s Indiana relatives visited my parents for the first time, they assumed, based upon my mom’s cooking, that she must be partly Hispanic.
Imagine my surprise, at age 14, when on a road trip with my grandparents I sampled Albuquerque Mexican food. Served alongside the fare I’d long known were pillows of flatbread called sopapillas. The waitress instructed me to bite off a corner, pour in honey and enjoy. At the time, and perhaps even today, one couldn’t find sopapillas in California, at least in any of the dozens of Mexican restaurants I have frequented.
3.
Though California is a place more cosmopolitan than most, a magnet for Americans from all over the nation and immigrants the world over, it is comical to look back on my own narrow perspective on the world after growing up there.
The anecdote that makes me look most foolish concerns the Golden State’s famously sunny climate.
“Care for some coffee?” the wife asked once I’d come inside.
The husband poured himself a cup too.
“Let’s talk out in the backyard,” he said. “Or do you think it’s too windy?”
In fact, it was as beautiful a morning as I’ve seen. The previous evening, gusty desert winds swept away the smog that choked San Bernardino County for weeks on end. Thus we headed outside onto a small patio, where the husband, stopping short just past the threshold, stared agape at the mountains.
“Honey, look at that,” he said.
“My God,” she replied. “It’s beautiful.”
As it turned out, husband and wife were unaware that their home boasted a mountain view—in fact, they never knew that an 8,599 foot peak rose just several miles from their back door, for prior to that morning the hazy Southern California air obscured the horizon.
Strange as it may seem to move to the foothills without knowing it, I cannot fault the couple for their myopia. Transplanted to an unfamiliar region, I’d doubtless be ignorant of something that looms as large for locals, or so I expect after living in three regions and visiting several others.
Every election year we’re reminded that we are “one nation, under God, indivisible.” It’s true enough that the principles of the founders unite us, as does the national defense, the Olympic games and network television. There is, however, a limit to our unity, one wrapped up in a lot of disparate concepts, including controversial ones like federalism and multiculturalism, but also uncontroversial ones: the pride of Texans, the Midwesterner who wants his child to attend nearby college, the inevitable return of most Californians to the Golden State, the Alaskan or Hawaiian vividly aware of her locale’s singularity.
I’ve always gotten along well enough with my fellow Americans, or at least the ones I’ve met. I haven’t stumbled upon or sought out snake-handling churches, NASCAR hotbeds, or hippie farms where everyone prances around naked, but I trust I’d like most of their denizens too—not that I’d want to live in their subcultures, though they’re welcome to do so.
Perhaps my attitude is uncontroversial—most Americans are, upon reflection, live and let live. But I worry that too often, the over-culture we share blinds us to the importance of local circumstances, the significance of regional differences and the need to accommodate them.
Is this all too vague?
So that I might be clearer, I offer a few vignettes that converge around what I’m trying to describe—a polity whose diversity ought to inform how its people interact.
It is enough to begin by saying that location matters.
Nevertheless, the recipes she’s passed on to me include exceptional homemade guacamole, Prime Rib enchiladas made from Christmas Day leftovers, a particularly tasty taco salad that tops every variety I’ve sampled, and other Mexican dishes so much a part of my childhood that when my father’s Indiana relatives visited my parents for the first time, they assumed, based upon my mom’s cooking, that she must be partly Hispanic.
Imagine my surprise, at age 14, when on a road trip with my grandparents I sampled Albuquerque Mexican food. Served alongside the fare I’d long known were pillows of flatbread called sopapillas. The waitress instructed me to bite off a corner, pour in honey and enjoy. At the time, and perhaps even today, one couldn’t find sopapillas in California, at least in any of the dozens of Mexican restaurants I have frequented.
Though California is a place more cosmopolitan than most, a magnet for Americans from all over the nation and immigrants the world over, it is comical to look back on my own narrow perspective on the world after growing up there.
The anecdote that makes me look most foolish concerns the Golden State’s famously sunny climate.
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ron bailey
November 20, 2008 11:11 am
Nice post, well done!
Jeff McCall
November 20, 2008 3:57 pm
Once again everyone south of the MasonDixon Line is painted with an incredibly broad brush. We are not all obsessed with the Civil War. I have lived in South Carolina for 34 of my 37 years. Also, a layover in a particular city does not constitute visiting it, i.e I changed planes in Chicago once...I have never visited Chicago.
Brandon Minich
November 20, 2008 11:10 pm
I enjoyed this article. A few observations:
1. The Confederate stuff pops up in weird places. For example: in rural Pennsylvania - a state that was in the Union, and was never in doubt. Part of it is a rural culture thing, although (obviously) not everyone in rural PA or Virginia likes the Confederacy.
2. Your observation about Europe is interesting, although I think there might be a different reason people don't connect with communist Europe: that was a cultural low point - there was nothing associated with communism that makes people want to romanticize it - no Southern gentlemen to give it any legitimacy. Plus, European history is much longer than the US history - to the Germans, communism was a blip in their nation's story. In the US, it would have been a large percentage. They remember WWI like it was yesterday - because in their history, it practically was.
Pan Cascadian
November 21, 2008 10:17 am
Amen
Sally Woodson
November 22, 2008 3:18 pm
Good article. I'll add a couple of my observations as well:
- New England has a lot of rules (no swimming! dogs on a leash! beach closes at dusk! no parking! etc), and if you do not obey them there is always someone nearby who is more than HAPPY to point out your infraction to you, and who will report you to the Proper Authorities.
- South Carolina had far fewer silly rules, and no one seemed to obey them.
- Southerners are generally extremely prompt and very polite. New Englanders are always late and nothing ever starts on time. But, nothing is EVER canceled due to bad weather. New Englanders will happily go to outdoor events during nor'easters, like the time our town refused to postpone the Christmas Tree lighting even though the tree blew down during the ceremony.
- I knew many Southerners who ironed their jeans. Ironed jeans are deeply confusing to a New Englander.
- The best pizza in the world can be purchased at small hole-in-the-wall type pizza places in New York. Also, New York deli food is far superior to any other deli food. Boston pizza is always a disappointment, in spite of all the Italians in the North End.
- While not all Southerners are obsessed with the Civil War, they are generally far more conscious of it than people in the other parts of the country.
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